Why You’re Not Getting What You Really Want and How to Shift It

Do you know how to get what you really want? Most likely not. The reason is that you don’t know what you really, truly want.

The first thing you need to figure out is why you’re not getting what you really want.

First, we’ll look at how this happens and then I’ll show you how to shift it.

There’s no difference between the way you manifest or create things in your personal life or your business life.

The fears that are lurking in the deep recesses of your mind are the same obstacles that prevent you from having what you want in either area of your life.

Everything you truly desire is manifesting in your life now. The question is what are you really asking for?

And what are you consciously telling yourself you want?

And why are they so different?

I didn’t say what your soul truly desires. I said what you, the ego mind truly desires. That’s well below what your soul desires.

If you’re not sure there’s a gap, look at what’s in your life.

You have created what your thoughts give the most attention to. You may on a conscious level desire one thing, but on a subconscious level feel undeserving and over-rule yourself with self-sabotaging internal dialogue.

If you are concentrating on something in your life that you’re trying to get rid of, remember the law of the Universe stating, “What you resist persists.”

You won’t get the (person, body, home, car) of your dreams by concentrating on how much you don’t want what you have. Acknowledge where you are and concentrate on the positive goal you will achieve.

For example, “I now have the perfect _______ for me. I am truly happy and grateful.”

Be aware of what you say to yourself 24/7. How did you feel just now reading that you have in your life exactly what you really feel you deserve?

Take a look at where those feelings came from.

Are you trying to avoid being in charge of your life by putting the responsibility for your situation on someone else?

Affirmations and written goals are a good way to stay focused.

Do you have written goals? Do you repeat them out loud at least 4 times a day?

Write your 3 top goals right now.

Go get your journal and write them out now.

If you’re not in the same place as your journal, send yourself a text with your 3 top goals so you can put them in your journal later.

Accept your life as it is now.

While you are resisting some part of your life your energy is focused on something that is not the way you want it.

Can you accept the realization that your life is the way it is because of the choices you’ve made based on the information you had?

Now you can let go and stop blaming either yourself or someone else.

There is no longer a need to explain or defend.

You did what you could with what you had. End of story!

You can let go and make different choices based on new information.

When you no longer have an attachment to what you don’t like in your life, you create an opening for something better.

While you are still hanging on, trying to force something to change, there is no open space for anything better to enter your life.

Let go, be open and be ready to surprise yourself.

Most likely there is something you want to do that you’re not or you would like to stop doing something you don’t like. Either way, you are resisting taking more productive action.

Journal on these questions to clear the blocks you’re experiencing:

  • What are you resisting in your life?
  • What do you have to gain by letting go?
  • What steps are you going to take now to let go and make room for something better?

If you feel like you don’t have a foundation of who you really are and what is important to you moving forward, start with creating your personal manifesto, the statements that define you, what you value.

If you don’t have a clear vision and blueprint for your life (including your health) and business, click here to be put on the waitlist to be notified of the next start date of my 6-week class, “How to Create a Vision for Your Life”.

Until next time, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Just comment on this post here or on Facebook.

If you would like private mentoring, go to the contact page above and tell me what you would like help with. As your mentor, I hold a bigger vision for you than you hold for yourself. When you have faith and a team that believes in you, it gives you courage. When you don’t have to do it all yourself, all things are possible for you. Commit today to go for your dream 100%.

With over 40 years in sales and marketing, along with 45 years studying human behavior, Lynn Pierce, “The Voice of an Ageless Life and Business,” mentors soul-based entrepreneurs to reach your own personal version of success and an ageless lifestyle. Tell Lynn what the life of your dreams looks like, and she’ll create the blueprints to get you there, along with the sales system to fund it. Author of, “Breakthrough to Success; 19 Keys to Mastering Every Area of Your Life”, Lynn Pierce’s personal growth and business acceleration systems help her clients get three times the results in half the time with one-tenth of the effort. Claim your free special report, “What Do You Stand For” here

Why You're Not Getting What You Really Want and How to Shift It

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