Lately I’ve been more social and I have met a lot of new people, online and at live events. I’ve also enjoyed see some old friends I have not seen in years. I’m energized by all the wonderful people I’m connecting with.
Divorce or death of a spouse can be a huge line in the sand marking a shift in your life. It’s been almost 3 years since my divorce and I’ve been doing more than my usual amount of introspection lately, looking at my beliefs. Those of you who know me, know I tend to be a little reserved; well, I’m coming out of my shell once again and I’m having a blast.
I’ve been looking at what I want my personal and professional relationships to look like. You know it is a conscious choice. So I had to ask myself a question that you may want to ask yourself today, “What is my life saying about me?” And another question, “Am I living my truth to the best of my ability or am I biting my tongue to not cause conflict?”
You know that as you work on yourself the people who show up in your life will change. The only thing people in your life can do is reflect who you believe you are and how you believe you deserve to be treated. It’s a great way of measuring your own level of self-esteem. I’m happy to say I have connected with some amazing people lately who I really enjoy spending time with.
I invite you to look at what kind of mirror people in your life are holding up for you. What are you putting out into the world?
In the spirit of new beginnings, I want to share with you Day 14 of “Change One Thing, Change Your Life; A Personal Transformation System”.
If you are not already using this system, let me give you a tip on how to get the most out of doing Day 14. I would suggest you meditate for a few minutes on the statement after reading the explanation below it. This will make it very easy for you to do the Personal Observations section next.
Answer the Personal Observation section in writing and in as much vivid detail as possible. The more detail you use to create your vision of your life, the more real it will become in your mind each time you review it. The more real it is to you, the quicker you will manifest it.
Allow at least 20 minutes to concentrate on the Day 14, rather than the usual 10 minutes. This visioning process is worth the extra time in what you will create.
Day 14: I have the perfect people in my life to mirror what I need to learn
Your life mirrors what you think about yourself in the people you associate with. Your relationships mirror how you think you should be treated. Your job mirrors what you feel is your level of contribution to the world. Your pay mirrors what you feel you deserve financially. Your choice of friends mirrors what you expect from life. The people that are drawn into your life reinforce what you hold as a picture of who you are and how you live. It mirrors what life means to you.
When you are open to changing the quality of your life you will see new people showing up. People you need to create new opportunities appear at just the right time. You will notice a difference in the kind of people you attract. You will also notice all the beliefs you are trying to change will show up to challenge you. Don’t allow yourself to be overwhelmed or sidetracked. This is a battle with your ego and possibly some of the people in your life who don’t want to see you change and grow.
Personal Observations Day 14
Decide what you want your life to look like and stick to your plan. The teacher always shows up when the student is ready. Be open to some very pleasant surprises as what you need to create the life you want begins to appear. Don’t be judgmental about the unexpected source.
Hold a vision in your mind of who you are growing to be and what you are growing to do. Picture yourself 5 years from now.
What is in your life?
Who are you in relationships with?
What is the quality of these relationships?
What kind of work do you do? How much money do you earn?
What do you do for fun? What do you do to give back to the world?
What contributions have you made to other people’s lives?
What kind of house do you live in?
Where is it?
How do you feel about yourself?
What do you see in your future?
What do you still want to do that you haven’t done yet?
I’d love for you to share your thoughts here. Also, this is the first product I created nine years ago and I still do the 40 day cycle of lessons every day. It’s that profound. If you do it your life will change.
Until next week, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Just comment on this post here.
If you would like personal mentoring, send me an email detailing what you would like help with. As your mentor I hold a bigger vision for you than you hold for yourself. When you have faith and a team that believes in you, it gives you courage. When you don’t have to do it all yourself, all things are possible for you. Commit today to go for your dream 100%.
With 32 years in sales and marketing, along with 38 years studying human behavior, Lynn Pierce, “The Success Architect,” mentors entrepreneurs and information marketers to reach the pinnacle of success. Tell Lynn what the life of your dreams looks like, and she’ll create the blueprints to get you there, along with the sales system to fund it. Author of, “Breakthrough to Success; 19 Keys to Mastering Every Area of Your Life”, Lynn Pierce’s personal growth and business acceleration systems help her clients get three times the results in half the time with one tenth of the effort. Claim your free special report, “What Do You Stand For; A No B.S. Guide to Creating Your Own Personal Manifesto” at http://LynnPierce.com